Honoring Every Tradition: Tips for Supporting Diverse Families During the Holiday Season
As the holiday season approaches, early childhood professionals can foster inclusivity and understanding among young children who come from diverse religious backgrounds and family structures, including kinship, foster, single-parent, and LGBTQ families.
Here are some strategies for supporting diverse families with an inclusive and respectful environment during the holiday season:
Acknowledge Diversity in Celebrations
Children’s sense of identity and belonging can be deeply tied to their family traditions
Encourage children and families to share their family’s unique celebrations and customs, whether they celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Eid, or other observances. Storytelling sessions or “show-and-tell” activities allow children to share their culture with pride and provide peers with exposure to different traditions.
For infants and young toddlers, books and music can be a comforting way to introduce young children to cultural diversity. Read books and play holiday songs from a range of traditions, helping babies experience diverse cultures, sounds and rhythms.
Create a Non-Denominational Environment
Decorate spaces in a way that reflects the season without favoring a specific holiday or religious symbol
For example, use neutral winter themes such as snowflakes, stars, and lights, which are inclusive and can resonate with various cultural celebrations. This approach fosters a welcoming atmosphere for children from all backgrounds, allowing them to feel equally represented in the shared space.
Respect and Include All Family Structures
The holiday season can be sensitive for children from diverse family units, including those in foster care, kinship care, or LGBTQ+ families
Recognize that traditional holiday narratives may not resonate with every child. Instead, consider supporting diverse families with inclusive books and activities that represent varied family dynamics, showcasing the message that family, regardless of its form, is rooted in love and support.
Consider displaying photos or illustrations around the room that represent diverse family structures. This could include images of single parents, grandparents as caregivers, foster families, and same-sex parents. Babies benefit from seeing varied family types around them, which reinforces inclusivity as they grow and become more aware of their surroundings.
Offer Flexible Participation Options
While some families may embrace holiday activities, others might prefer not to participate
Provide options that allow families to opt into different holiday activities according to their comfort levels. For example, craft activities could offer both general winter themes and holiday-specific options. This flexibility respects each child’s and family’s preferences and upholds a supportive environment.
Partner with Families for Inclusive Learning
Encourage families to share their traditions and stories with the class through safe channels like virtual storytelling or sending in photographs or videos
This collaboration not only reinforces family ties but also helps create a classroom culture where each child’s heritage and background are respected and celebrated. Ensuring that families feel their voices are heard and valued reinforces strong family and community bonds.
By incorporating these strategies, early childhood professionals can create a holiday environment that reflects and respects the diversity of the children and families they serve, fostering a sense of belonging and inclusivity during this special time of year.